3 posts tagged “rules of fag”

That's a prevelant question often asked in gay dating or simple sexual interactions...
I have a friend who hates being asked if he's a top or a bottom.
I didn't really get that until recently. It's begun to bug me as well...
I understand the idea of preference; Makes total sense.
I just feel that so many GLBTs posture. Whether to appease a societal view or a partner.
When I look at my desires... I want to share myself with another person sexually. To me, this means share everything. Why limit what I experience? All things within reason...
This question has come to seem 2-dimensional in its view to me... Preferences aside, I think this is greatly an attempt to normalize our roles into heterosexual viewpoints. That helps our relationships make sense to them, & that's not a bad thing...exactly.
I hope as we begin to fit into mainstream society more, we don't lose sight of our cultural, psychological, & even physical differences that are inherent to homosexuality.
We should aspire to inclusion (not acceptance), but that inclusion should not require homogenization.

So... I've been sort of silent lately... A mixed bag...
I'm single... I'm gay... I'm 31... it often looks hopeless... Who wants to be the drag? I haven't been depressed exactly... More like a lasting case of the Mondays. Hehe

Okay... I'm gay... So singing comes with the package... But I'm almost a drag queen with Bonnie Tyler's "Holding out for a Hero."
My dog is frightened!
So... I'm thinking of the other day when He was giving it to Her so good I almost came. (He & Her, my new above neighbors)
I greatly envy them their OBVIOUSLY good sex.
Now... I'm thinking... What if they can hear me? Am I wearing a wig, harem pants, & castanets? How do you spell that word?
Sadly I fear every fag has that inner queen who needs her musical solos.
Psst... Its like the 'N' word... I can use it. You...? Not so much... Hehe. Just ask Isaiah, right?
Truly though... I'll let it pass as long as I trust your smile, & you better be smiling...
Its fucking 2am... Why am I going out?
Oh yeah... I am drunk...

I am drunk?