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    <title>Walking drunk...</title>
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    <subtitle>This is my place to muse, philosophize, or rant... Maybe I&#39;ll say something funny from time to time though...</subtitle>  
    
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        <title>Dating Files: Nerd Alert!</title>   
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        <published>2008-03-16T19:41:50Z</published>
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         Last night I grabbed my sack &amp; made a move to talk to a guy. This isn&#39;t one of my strong suits, but definitely something I should do more often. The guy was one I had been locking eyes with for weeks, but watched leave with guys who had a pair. I ...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Expectations &amp; Truths...</title>   
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        <published>2008-02-01T07:19:28Z</published>
        <updated>2008-02-01T22:33:06Z</updated>
    
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   Tonight I am drunk enough that truth runs like wine, &amp; the pen sweeps freely &#39;cross the page... These are the words of a troubled heart freed by spirits of its secrecy. Funny how the truth I try to hide is so easily read upon my face. I&#39;m leaving ...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Are you a top or a bottom?</title>   
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        <published>2008-01-22T06:19:47Z</published>
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         That&#39;s a prevelant question often asked in gay dating or simple sexual interactions... I have a friend who hates being asked if he&#39;s a top or a bottom. I didn&#39;t really get that until recently. It&#39;s begun to bug me as well... I understand the idea ...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>What do you look for in a potential other-half?</title>   
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   I was surfing the message boards &amp; this question was posed. I&#39;ve been drinking wine, which makes me wax philosophic... Hehe So... Here&#39;s my take: An interesting thing to me is that the OP simply asked what qualities, and the word perfect was seemi...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Pondering what to do...</title>   
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        <published>2007-12-30T06:05:07Z</published>
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   I know you don&#39;t find love when you&#39;re looking for it. You usually recreate the facts around something to make it fit. I&#39;ve done that, &amp; I&#39;m pretty good at recognizing the signs now... Hehe. I&#39;m not so much down about not having someone... It&#39;s so...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Bust a Move! Or be single forever...</title>   
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        <published>2007-12-23T18:44:32Z</published>
        <updated>2008-01-07T21:40:03Z</updated>
    
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   I just read a post by a guy who was disappointed in dating, &amp; blamed it on the shallowness of men... There&#39;s some truth there... I have only myself to blame however; For I am a pussy. I feared this to be true, &amp; last night I proved it to myself. T...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <published>2007-12-15T09:04:36Z</published>
        <updated>2007-12-15T10:31:52Z</updated>
    
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         So... Here at the &#39;mo bar...again... I&#39;m cruising guys... Guys are cruising me... And I leave... There are guys I could have tonight... Maybe even tomorrow... But... I leave... I&#39;ll hate that its just me, but I&#39;ll leave alone... Sadly, I still bel...   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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